Rant reflection:
As a little bit of a reflection upon why I chose to write about what I did, I picked this topic because I’ve been in all of these situations. I wasn’t a child at the time but I was that teenager who would never really open up to my parents, and when I would, they would be scrolling through Facebook or surfing the internet while on their phones and laptops. Still to this day, they continue to do it. I know they see it as harmless, whatever, everyone does it. But if your son or daughter is trying to tell you about their day or what their plans for the week are and they bring it up a few days later and you don’t recall the conversation, then obviously that’s a problem.
As a little bit of a reflection upon why I chose to write about what I did, I picked this topic because I’ve been in all of these situations. I wasn’t a child at the time but I was that teenager who would never really open up to my parents, and when I would, they would be scrolling through Facebook or surfing the internet while on their phones and laptops. Still to this day, they continue to do it. I know they see it as harmless, whatever, everyone does it. But if your son or daughter is trying to tell you about their day or what their plans for the week are and they bring it up a few days later and you don’t recall the conversation, then obviously that’s a problem.
I chose to use Facebook to make this public because so many people today are on Facebook. I believe with the help of friends, my rant could be shared from one Facebook page to another, spreading my thoughts and opinions about how much technology has consumed our lives. I see posts shared by friends on a daily basis, and with a little help, I know I could get my point across to many others out there.
Honestly, after reading the article I found online during class, my eyes have really opened up in regards to how often we use technology. I really put a lot of thought into this and reading about how we cannot have a whole conversation without feeling the need to check our phones is upsetting. What’s more upsetting is that so many people can admit to doing this too. I’m not so innocent here either, but this article really kind of sparked up this rant of mine. We devote so much of our attention to our cellphones and whatever else that we forget how to hold actual conversations with real people who are right in front of us.
This article is really what gave me the idea to post my rant on Facebook. Since my rant deals with technology, I feel a lot of people who read my rant would hopefully get an eye opener and understand where I’m coming from. I’m not saying we should just throw away our cellphones, because they are very helpful when keeping in touch with family members who are across the country and what not. But if you’re with a friend or a significant other or even your child, give them your full attention and be responsive with questions and input during the conversation. It will show just how much you’re listening to them which will make for a much better conversation. We can’t show emotion through a text, but we certainly can in person. Make that person you’re with feel respected and want to engage in continuing talking with you, because if you’re staring into your phone every five minutes, it’s hard to hold a conversation with someone whose attention isn’t fully there. Consider what I have said, and consider what you need or want to change about yourself to prevent yourself from doing these same things to others.